Reading Life
20th July 2017

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I used to love reading.  I still do but with the so little time I have nowadays, I’m lucky if I have a few minutes to have some “me time” when my son finally gets to bed before I fall asleep myself.  I really do want to dedicate some of that “me time” to reading because I really do miss it.  I miss immersing myself in a good book and losing myself in a good story.  A way for me to escape the realities of the world, if you will.  That is why I like fiction.  I like a story that is different from my life and at times stories that seem unrealistic because it’s my own sense of adventure for myself and I can escape.  This was why I started reading in the first place when I moved to Canada when I was 9.  I was the new kid, not too many friends yet and not familiar with the environment so I would read.  I used to be able to read a book every couple of days and now not so much.  My husband likes non-fiction because he is a man of facts which I get.  He likes the realities of the world and likes to tell real stories which in turn gives us really good conversations sometimes.

I enjoy some fiction too.  I am actually currently reading “A Life in Parts” by Bryan Cranston (a great actor – Breaking Bad, Malcom in The Middle to name a couple) which is a memoir.  It’s great so far because I like the way he talks about his life – A series of short stories (which makes sense to the title).  It’s like looking into different memories he had throughout his life rather than reading one long boring mesh of thoughts that would sound like ramblings to me.  He has some great stories and he writes in a way that makes them exciting and wanting you to read more and also leaving room to leave room for thought after each story.  It makes me want to do the same with myself sometime in my life.

Expressing to my husband about how much I want to start reading since I have really no other passions right now that I can have the time to actually do , he bought me a KOBO GLO e-reader.  I was soooooo happy!  I love this thing.  I bring it around everywhere with me since it’s so small and compact and it all ALL the books I want in there at a touch of a screen.  I love that the “pages” look like actual book pages because the color and the lighting is not too bright like how a cellphone screen would look it.  It’s easy on the eyes and it feels like I’m reading an actual book.  My husband saw how much I was enjoying it that he was starting to want one now too!  He wants to be able to read one of his book during his downtime at work rather than be on his phone the whole time.  I love it when he reads because he used to HATE reading.  Now he has read more books than I have over the past year and he gets so excited telling about what he has read.  Like I said previously, we have good conversations about this and I love it when we just sit and talk.

Now since he has an affinity for reading too and he needs something to keep him busy during his breaks, I now bought HIM a KOBO e-reader as well!!  He’s pretty excited about it and I am too.  It seems our son likes to “read” too because at night before bed, he will always grab his story books and plays and “reads” them.  It’s the cutest thing.  I’ve always wanted a kid that loved to read.

 




32 Onwards
19th June 2017

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I am officially 32 as of June 16, 2017.  Another year older, another year of life which I am greatful for.  It was a fun weekend hanging out with family and friends.  It was our very first barbeque in this new home of ours and I love it.  My husband got the cutest little barbeque too.  It suits perfectly in our little balcony and it’s perfect for the two of us because it’s really small but yet it still managed to cook for more than 6 people so this little barbeque is quite remarkable!

I love barbeques and it always floods me with great memories.  One of my fondest memories that involved my birthday and having a barbeque was a few years ago.  I arranged a big BBQ at Jericho park with all my friends; we had burgers, hot dogs, chicken wings … We then played some Ultimate Frisbee which was sooooo great!!  It was the perfect weather and we were all just laughing hysterically as we all tried to compete with one another.  I remember Mr. L just diving towards the grass trying to grab the Frisbee but it ended up perfectly smack dab on his forehead.  I remember trying to take a group photo but there was always someone missing or not looking at the camera.  I remember all of us just laughing and laughing and eating and eating until the breeze started blowing cold and it was time to go home even though we all really didn’t want to.  Until this day, all my friends say that was one of the best days they remember in the summer too and that we should have another day like that.

My have the days changed though.  If we were to have another day like that it will be different.  Why? Because our lives have changed.  Most of us have children now.  There’s nothing wrong with that! For me, there’s new memories to look forward to because I’m excited to see the kids have the chance to play their games and laugh and laugh as all us adults watch and laugh with them.  My best memories of barbeques is the concept of all of being together in one place, enjoying the day; the moment.  One big happy family regardless of the number of adults and children.  As long as we are all together having the best times of our lives, that is all I could ask for.

So bring it on 32.  Bring on more days of joy and life.

 




Parent Life
12th June 2017

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It has been a while.  It truly has.  I can’t say for all the moms out there but for me, it IS a thing … MOM life.  I admit, I don’t have as much of a social life as I would like to have but I don’t care.  It’s been worth it.  I have learned over the past year the importance of having as much time with your child as much as you can.  Now that I am back at work, I miss being near my son and just seeing him laugh and smile which makes the end of the work day all the better.  I have something to look forward to.  I get to go home to my family.

I was pretty excited to go back to work though.  As much as I LOVE being around my son all the time, I still needed my “ME” time.  It’s very important that each mother gets it.  For me, I still needed that sense of identity outside of being a mother.  My job is that because I really do genuinely enjoy my work and the company I work for.  It’s “my thing” I guess.  I really don’t have much time for my hobbies and other interests anymore so having to be able to go to work and do my own thing is great.  I enjoy having my drive to work with a nice cup of coffee and listening to my music during my commute in the mornings.

My husband and I are quite lucky that we are able to both work and provide for our family as sometimes, thinking of childcare can be quite daunting for some.  We are soooo fortunate that our schedules work out and that we have Grandma to help out as well.  My husband now works evening shifts while I work mornings. There’s a good and bad but it works.  The good is that my husband gets to have his bonding times with baby G in the mornings since he works later in the day.  He feeds him, changes and clothes him, they have walks in the morning and sometimes he’ll bring Baby G to our complex gym so he gets a workout while my son plays.  He’s always sending me sweet funny videos of our son and what he’s up to or learning everyday just so I don’t miss out.  He drops off our son to Grandma before he heads to work and in a couple of hours later, I am off work so I get to pick him up and we have our bonding times together in the evenings and have our bedtime routines together.  So we each get to have our time with him.  The downfall is that my husband and I don’t really get to see each other much during the week since he gets home late and I am already so tired that I’m passed out before he gets home.  At least we get weekends though.  Weekends are our FAMILY DAYS.  It could something as simple as spending the day doing groceries but it’s still FAMILY DAY.  It’s so special to us because it’s our time together to make up for a whole work week of not being able to spend any time together.  It’s these little things that matter so much and we love it so so much.

We don’t forget our families and friends though.  We are so lucky to have such great family and friends.  We live farther away now but we still all see each other all the time.  Our bestfriends visit us almost every weekend because we always like to hold UFC nights at our place.  A night of fun eats and drinks, they usually end up sleeping over so it’s always so much fun.  I can’t express enough how much I love those two.  No matter what, they are always there for us even though we live farther away now.  They are pretty much family.  My husband and my best friend, Miss K, are pretty much brother and sister.  Her boyfriend is our son’s Godfather.  We have stuck around for years and years and I can’t even begin to tell you how much they have been there for us and we have been there for them.  They are family.  Some people think friends are something else but for me .. NOPE.  THEY ARE MY FAMILY.  Love you guys!

I really do want to blog more.  I find myself always wanting to share tid bits of my mom life but nowhere or no one to share them to.  So I figured, why not use my blog?

 




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