Parent Life
12th June 2017
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It has been a while.  It truly has.  I can’t say for all the moms out there but for me, it IS a thing … MOM life.  I admit, I don’t have as much of a social life as I would like to have but I don’t care.  It’s been worth it.  I have learned over the past year the importance of having as much time with your child as much as you can.  Now that I am back at work, I miss being near my son and just seeing him laugh and smile which makes the end of the work day all the better.  I have something to look forward to.  I get to go home to my family.

I was pretty excited to go back to work though.  As much as I LOVE being around my son all the time, I still needed my “ME” time.  It’s very important that each mother gets it.  For me, I still needed that sense of identity outside of being a mother.  My job is that because I really do genuinely enjoy my work and the company I work for.  It’s “my thing” I guess.  I really don’t have much time for my hobbies and other interests anymore so having to be able to go to work and do my own thing is great.  I enjoy having my drive to work with a nice cup of coffee and listening to my music during my commute in the mornings.

My husband and I are quite lucky that we are able to both work and provide for our family as sometimes, thinking of childcare can be quite daunting for some.  We are soooo fortunate that our schedules work out and that we have Grandma to help out as well.  My husband now works evening shifts while I work mornings. There’s a good and bad but it works.  The good is that my husband gets to have his bonding times with baby G in the mornings since he works later in the day.  He feeds him, changes and clothes him, they have walks in the morning and sometimes he’ll bring Baby G to our complex gym so he gets a workout while my son plays.  He’s always sending me sweet funny videos of our son and what he’s up to or learning everyday just so I don’t miss out.  He drops off our son to Grandma before he heads to work and in a couple of hours later, I am off work so I get to pick him up and we have our bonding times together in the evenings and have our bedtime routines together.  So we each get to have our time with him.  The downfall is that my husband and I don’t really get to see each other much during the week since he gets home late and I am already so tired that I’m passed out before he gets home.  At least we get weekends though.  Weekends are our FAMILY DAYS.  It could something as simple as spending the day doing groceries but it’s still FAMILY DAY.  It’s so special to us because it’s our time together to make up for a whole work week of not being able to spend any time together.  It’s these little things that matter so much and we love it so so much.

We don’t forget our families and friends though.  We are so lucky to have such great family and friends.  We live farther away now but we still all see each other all the time.  Our bestfriends visit us almost every weekend because we always like to hold UFC nights at our place.  A night of fun eats and drinks, they usually end up sleeping over so it’s always so much fun.  I can’t express enough how much I love those two.  No matter what, they are always there for us even though we live farther away now.  They are pretty much family.  My husband and my best friend, Miss K, are pretty much brother and sister.  Her boyfriend is our son’s Godfather.  We have stuck around for years and years and I can’t even begin to tell you how much they have been there for us and we have been there for them.  They are family.  Some people think friends are something else but for me .. NOPE.  THEY ARE MY FAMILY.  Love you guys!

I really do want to blog more.  I find myself always wanting to share tid bits of my mom life but nowhere or no one to share them to.  So I figured, why not use my blog?

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